Hey You!
School
How are you feeling about the pandemic that initially seemed like a dream come true—school out forever, and homeschooling on Zoom meant more time for your PS5? I mean, who wouldn’t think that turning off the camera would make it easy to game all day? Pshhh, what a joke, right? The excitement quickly faded when reality hit, and suddenly those endless Zoom classes became a challenge.
Now, as we’re transitioning back to in-person school, I know it can feel overwhelming. The prospect of seeing classmates face-to-face again, not wearing masks, and navigating all those social dynamics can stir up insecurities. You might find yourself questioning how to reconnect or wondering if things will ever feel “normal” again. As a therapist who works with teens, I completely understand these feelings, and I want you to know that it’s perfectly okay to feel this way.
But here’s the good news: you’re not alone in this. Together, we can find ways to cope with these changes, build confidence, and even share a few laughs along the way. Let’s work together to make sense of this wild ride, because I promise you, there’s light at the end of the tunnel—and maybe even a few power-ups to help you level up in this new school experience!
Social Interaction’s
Are you feeling that paralyzing fear of interacting with others? It’s completely normal, especially after a period of isolation. Navigating social relationships during your teen years can be daunting, whether it's dealing with the relentless harassment from mean kids or feeling overwhelmed in new situations. You might find yourself avoiding people or places just to escape that anxiety, and who can blame you?
For some teens, the fear of speaking in front of others can be crippling, and worries about judgment from peers can make everyday interactions feel like a high-stakes performance. Eating in front of others? That can become a source of anxiety all on its own. Public places can feel like a social media feed on overload, filled with the pressure to conform and the fear of being scrutinized. It can be exhausting to wear a mask just to fit in, especially when the real you feels stifled beneath all that expectation.
Anxiety and Depression
Are you feeling that paralyzing fear of interacting with others? It’s completely normal, especially given the overwhelming number of teenagers grappling with anxiety and depression today. Many of you might be missing the carefree days of childhood play and friendships that felt more genuine. As you transition out of elementary school, it can feel like everything changes—friends drift apart, new dynamics emerge, and the isolation of being a teenager can be suffocating.
You may find yourself feeling alone, especially when it seems like your parents don’t understand your struggles or get frustrated with you for not conforming. For those dealing with issues at home—like substance abuse, yelling, or even domestic abuse—the challenges can feel insurmountable. Watching peers start to date while you feel left out only adds to the weight on your shoulders. And let’s not forget the constant worry of lockdowns at school due to potential threats, which can make even the safest environments feel terrifying. Sneaking out might feel like the only way to escape, but even that can come with its own fears.
Life has thrown a lot at us—fires, mudslides, and the loss of loved ones, all while expectations remain high. Staying in your room may seem like the safest place on earth, but is it really? In our sessions, we can navigate these complex feelings together and work on building the confidence and skills you need to face the world outside. You don’t have to carry this weight alone; let’s explore how you can embrace your authentic self and find a way forward.
A lot of young people are so misunderstood and not respected even within their own families. At times parents make the mistake of comparing their kids to one another and that’s often hurtful and frustrating. They dismiss what is important to you and might not take your requests and desires seriously when you need them to. Some parents have unrealistic expectation of their teens and this can also put unnecessary pressure on you and lead to feelings of defeat and maybe even unworthiness.
All of this and so much more can lead you to feel angry and resentful toward your parents for not recognizing that you're doing the best that you can with what you know and there are so many things about you that they don’t even take note of. Could it be there focus is mostly directed at al the “bad” things you do? Either way, it’s not always fair and you’ll be at the point where your just over it all. The arguing, the insults, the annoying nagging. You go in your room to avoid it all but their knocking at your door begging you to tell them what is wrong when in reality all you want to do is be left alone.
Sadly, some parents don’t have the slightest clue as to what you go through day in and day out just to keep your head above water. For many young people talking to parents about issues and feelings doesn’t come easy. Parent’s tend to freak out and then they want to interfere out of protection but that is not what young people who are trying to figure out where they fit in usually want. Maybe you want more friends and perhaps all you have is your phone and we all know how much parents love your cell phone don’t we?